[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/naucte-se-hadat-kreativne\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/naucte-se-hadat-kreativne\/","headline":"Nau\u010dte se h\u00e1dat kreativn\u011b","name":"Nau\u010dte se h\u00e1dat kreativn\u011b","description":"Reakce \u00fatok N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed tendenci oponenta p\u0159ev\u00e1lcovat, zadupat do zem\u011b, ub\u00edt mno\u017estv\u00edm argument\u016f. Cht\u011bj\u00ed dos\u00e1hnout sv\u00e9ho, zv\u00edt\u011bzit a porazit soupe\u0159e. Jen\u017ee t\u00edm druh\u00fdm je obvykle partner, man\u017eel, sourozenec, p\u0159\u00edtel a n\u011bkdo bl\u00edzk\u00fd, na kom jim z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, s k\u00fdm sd\u00edl\u00ed stejn\u00fd prostor – dom\u00e1cnost nebo pracovi\u0161t\u011b. Kdo je pak v kone\u010dn\u00e9m v\u00fdsledku v\u00edt\u011bz?\u00a0 A existuje v\u016fbec […]","datePublished":"2023-05-24","dateModified":"2023-05-24","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9bbe1b3bd68cf5b616cc697a459b86e3be4df6c120806baf939f8aad94b0a3d6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9bbe1b3bd68cf5b616cc697a459b86e3be4df6c120806baf939f8aad94b0a3d6?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"mpzp.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288972_w1923_t1500374017.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a288972_w1923_t1500374017.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/naucte-se-hadat-kreativne\/","wordCount":509,"articleBody":"Reakce \u00fatokN\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed maj\u00ed tendenci oponenta p\u0159ev\u00e1lcovat, zadupat do zem\u011b, ub\u00edt mno\u017estv\u00edm argument\u016f. Cht\u011bj\u00ed dos\u00e1hnout sv\u00e9ho, zv\u00edt\u011bzit a porazit soupe\u0159e.Jen\u017ee t\u00edm druh\u00fdm je obvykle partner, man\u017eel, sourozenec, p\u0159\u00edtel a n\u011bkdo bl\u00edzk\u00fd, na kom jim z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, s k\u00fdm sd\u00edl\u00ed stejn\u00fd prostor – dom\u00e1cnost nebo pracovi\u0161t\u011b.Kdo je pak v kone\u010dn\u00e9m v\u00fdsledku v\u00edt\u011bz?\u00a0 A existuje v\u016fbec v\u00edt\u011bz, kdy\u017e konflikt naboural vztah? M\u00e1 v\u016fbec smysl, aby byl n\u011bkdo v\u00edt\u011bzem? Jakou m\u00e1 z\u00a0pohledu dlouhodob\u00e9ho vztahu cenu, \u017ee n\u011bkdo v konfliktu zv\u00edt\u011bzil? Copak je bl\u00edzk\u00fd vztah zalo\u017een na soupe\u0159en\u00ed, v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed jednoho nad druh\u00fdm?Reakce \u00fat\u011bkJin\u00e9 typy konflikt\u016f vznikaj\u00ed nikoliv z d\u016fvodu p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9ho prosazov\u00e1n\u00ed dominantn\u00edho partnera, ale proto\u017ee se probl\u00e9m ne\u0159e\u0161\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 z povahy sv\u00e9 osobnosti neradi vstupuj\u00ed do otev\u0159en\u00e9 interakce a prosazov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1zor\u016f. Nech\u00e1vaj\u00ed si v\u0161echno pro sebe, ale uvnit\u0159 nich to v\u0159e.Tato strategie vypad\u00e1 navenek jako nekonfliktn\u00ed, proto\u017ee b\u011bhem n\u00ed nezazn\u00edvaj\u00ed ostr\u00e1 slova, nedoch\u00e1z\u00ed k v\u00fdm\u011bn\u011b n\u00e1zor\u016f a h\u00e1dk\u00e1m. Kv\u016fli tomu se v\u0161ak probl\u00e9m nepohne z m\u00edsta, proto\u017ee o n\u011bm nemluv\u00edme. Druh\u00e1 strana o n\u011bm mo\u017en\u00e1 ani nev\u00ed. Bez komunikace, n\u00e1pad\u016f a prob\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed alternativ se partne\u0159i nedopracuj\u00ed k mo\u017enostem \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.Probl\u00e9my \u0159e\u0161te vz\u00e1jemnou komunikac\u00edZku\u0161enosti ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee mnohem \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed jsou ti partne\u0159i, kte\u0159\u00ed probl\u00e9my \u0159e\u0161\u00ed vz\u00e1jemnou komunikac\u00ed a nevyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed se konfrontaci, kter\u00e1 je posouv\u00e1 p\u0159i \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed vp\u0159ed. Tato vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 argumentace nen\u00ed \u00fato\u010dn\u00e1, jej\u00edm c\u00edlem nen\u00ed dostat partnera na lopatky, ale vy\u0159e\u0161it probl\u00e9m. Nen\u00ed zam\u011b\u0159ena na osobu, ale \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9mu.Nejlep\u0161\u00ed je prevencePokuste se konfliktu a vyhrocen\u00ed situace nejd\u0159\u00edv zabr\u00e1nit, ne\u017e n\u00e1m p\u0159eroste p\u0159es hlavu. Pokud c\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee se ve v\u00e1s hromad\u00ed destruktivn\u00ed zlost, je dobr\u00e9 se zastavit, p\u0159epnout na jin\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, nebo odv\u00e9st \u0159e\u010d \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fdm sm\u011brem, p\u0159ej\u00edt na jin\u00e9 t\u00e9ma. M\u016f\u017eete si pomoci tlesknut\u00edm, lusknut\u00edm prsty nebo jak\u00fdmkoliv gestem, kter\u00e9 vyjad\u0159uje \u00famysl zm\u011bnit t\u00e9ma.Pokud u\u017e ke konfrontaci dojdeBu\u010fte konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed. Nepou\u017e\u00edvejte generalizuj\u00edc\u00ed obecn\u00e1 vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed typu: \u201eNikdy si neuklid\u00ed\u0161\u2026 V\u017edycky jsi takov\u00fd\u2026 V\u0161ichni to d\u011blaj\u00ed\u2026 Nikdo nen\u00ed takov\u00fd lempl jako ty\u201c apod. V\u00fdraz\u016fm \u201enikdy\u201c nebo \u201ev\u017edy\u201c, \u010di \u201enikdo\u201c a \u201eka\u017ed\u00fd\u201c se vyhn\u011bte.Kdy\u017e v\u00e1m vad\u00ed n\u011b\u010d\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed, ne\u0159\u00edkejte:\u00a0 \u201eTy po sob\u011b nikdy neuklid\u00ed\u0161.\u201c Bu\u010fte konkr\u00e9tn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u0158ekn\u011bte: \u201eV\u010dera jsi po sob\u011b neuklidil.\u201c Potom se sna\u017ete domluvit na n\u00e1prav\u011b situace.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Nau\u010dte se h\u00e1dat kreativn\u011b","item":"https:\/\/www.mpzp.cz\/naucte-se-hadat-kreativne\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]